Pick your wars.

I used to go outraged on a lot of stuff. This was unfair, that needs to be different, why does he not do this etc. etc.

Until a friend of mine told me to pick my wars. Not go with everything into a fight.

Lately there where three people asking me: " why are you so angry?'. First I thought I fell into the same trap, but it was about the same topic. The same war. 

So unconsciously I choose my war. Also not as a war, but as a very balanced kind of Aikido fight.

What is your war and how are you fighting it?